Tyler Clementi
(1991 - 2010)

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Tyler Clementi

Birth:
December 19, 1991

Passing:
September 22, 2010


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He will wipe every tear from their eyes.
There will be no more death or mourning
or crying or pain, for the old order
of things has passed away.
Revelation 21:4

Tyler was a wonderful young man who gave his family joy beyond measure. He was a gifted violinist, and was always willing to share his gift with those who loved him... be it with the worship band at church, as part of the many orchestras in which he performed or in the comfort and quiet of his own home. Many of us were blessed to have known such an amazing and talented person. Tyler was loved and will be missed.

This site has been created with the direct and express permission of the Clementi Family. It is intended to solely be a place where the Clementi Family can come to find comfort in shared memories of their precious son and brother.

Please come here and share your memories of Tyler... your stories of personal encounters or to simply leave a message of condolence or support to his family.

We kindly request that this site be kept as a memorial to Tyler. Please note that all memorials posted will be monitored and any postings that are deemed inappropriate will be promptly removed.

Thank you.

Guest Book Wall (What is this?)
Tricia Maslov
October 1st, 2010
"Joe, Jane, Jimmy and Brian --
I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you his peace that passes all understanding. Tyler was a very special person and he touched so many lives through the beauty of his music and his sweet smile. My heart aches for you... and I am here for you whenever you need me. My arms are wrapped around you all. Love, Tricia "

guia reyes
(worship sister)
October 1st, 2010
"Tyler will always have a special place in my heart. I will remember him as a talented student and musician...dedicated, pure and true in his service to the Lord. I will miss him so much.

My prayers to my dear friends Jane and Joe, and to their sons Jimmy and Brian. Love Guia"

Lynda Renick
(friend)
October 1st, 2010
"Jane, Joe, Jimmy and Brian,

My heart breaks for your broken hearts. Hold each other close and rely on the strength and support of those who love you but mostly lean on the EVERLASTING arms of our Lord who loves you more than you can comprehend.

Love,
Lynda"

Joe and Maureen Giangola
(friends )
October 1st, 2010
"Dear Joe, Jane, Jimmy and Brian,
Our hearts are broken over the loss of Tyler. We grieve with you and know the Lord will give you strength during this difficult time.

All our love,
Maureen and Joe"

Dick & Doreen Van Yperen
(friends)
October 2nd, 2010
"As we remember Tyler as a humble and gifted young man, daily we are asking God to meet you in this time of mourning and immerse you in His comfort. Knowing we are not able to lighten the great burden of sorrow you are experiencing, we, nevertheless, desire to uphold you in prayer.
Dick & Doreen http://www.ilasting.com/images/wall/candle2.jpg"

Barbara Farrington
(friend)
October 2nd, 2010
"Dear Jane, Joe, Jimmy & Brian --
You all have been in our thoughts and prayers since we first heard about Tyler. Few worship services have moved us as much as the ones in which Tyler had a prominent part. His music had such a sensitivity and sense of worship...as well as consummate skill. God gave him a remarkable gift which he was faithful to develop and use for Him. Just at Grace Church he touched more lives than many who live much longer! May your memories of the joy he brought to your family and to so many others comfort you now and in the days ahead. May you all experience the reality of God's sheltering care and comfort. "God is our refuge and strength, an ever present help in trouble." Psalm 46:1 With our continuing prayers.... Barbara & Ron Farrington"

Rich and Ruth Rudd
(friends)
October 2nd, 2010
"Joe, Jane, Jimmy and Brian,

We love you. Your family is in our prayers daily. Tyler was a special guy and so gracious with his gift of music. He honored us by playing at Ruth's Mother's memorial service, for which we are grateful. His faithfulness in leading us in worship, along with the team, is a lasting gift to the Grace Church family.

Love, Ruth and Rich Rudd"

Pat Lang
(Secretary, Ben Franklin S)
October 7th, 2010
"Dear Joe, Jane, Jimmy, and Brian,
I don't remember every single student who has gone through BF in the 25 years I've been there, but I do remember Tyler. Whenever he would come into the main office to ask us anything, he was always polite and so pleasant. He was a joy to be around... just a really great kid! And, of course, I remember the concerts. For a middle school musician, his talent was stunning; his music brought joy to anyone who heard it. Tyler's time on earth was much too short, but he will be remembered for a long, long time... and what beautiful music there is in heaven now!
Please know that Tyler was so loved by everyone who knew him, and our prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Pat Lang"

Dominic Conti
(Worship Band Guitarist)
October 7th, 2010
"Dear Clementi Family: Tyler was an excellent musician and I was blessed to have the opportunity to play in the worship band with him. He spoke to all of us through his wonderful gift of music and his gentle spirit. He will be deeply missed. I will continue to keep you in my daily prayers. "

Christi Cadorette
October 7th, 2010
"Joe, Jane, Brian and Jimmy,

Michael and I are so heartbroken for all of you. Tyler was such a wonderful person and his music and gentle spirit was such a blessing to us. We are praying for all of you. Please know we are your family and are here for you.

Love,
Michael and Christi "

Annette and Stefan Essebier
(Friends)
October 8th, 2010
"Dear Jane, Joe, Jimmy and Brian,

It was a privilege to have known Tyler during our time in Ridgewood and to have served in the music at Grace Church together. He was an amazing young man and great musician. We are mourning with you over your dear loss and wish we could be closer to you now to share your pain. You are in our thoughts and prayers - may God, the good shepherd, comfort you as he is with you, even when you walk through the darkest valley.

Love
Annette and Stefan"

Brenda and Tom Hynes
(friends)
October 9th, 2010
"We were so privileged to have been blessed by Tyler and his music. From listening to a spirited piece that would rival any Irish jig to the sweetest strains of worship in "Oh sacred head now wounded" our hearts were lifted up together before the presence of God. Tyler was a special part of our church family and we will miss him.

Our prayers are with you all daily as we continually lift your family up to the God of all comfort who holds you in the palm of his hand and will not let you go. May he fill you with his grace and peace beyond all understanding.

With continued love and prayers,
Brenda and Tom Hynes"

Courtney Pfeiffer
(Tyler's former teacher)
October 10th, 2010
"Dear Joe, Jane, Jimmy and Brian,
To the wonderful Clementi family, I send my deepest condolences. Tyler was a teacher's dream. He was quiet but hard working and kind; a sweet, gentle adolescent.
Even after his years at BF, I have a lasting memory of seeing Tyler walking to school every morning, violin in hand. I know that he is now walking among the angels, still ready to play his beautiful music.
My thoughts and prayers are with you. You are a great family. May your strength and love for each other sustain you at this time.
Love,
Courtney Pfeiffer "

Angela Gier
October 16th, 2010
"I did not know your son. I heard the news one morning and was struck heavily in the heart to pray for him and especially for your family. I did not know of your faith and I prayed for your dear, beautiful son's salvation and that he would enter eternal peace and rest. I am the mother of a 17 year old son and 14 year old daughter. I was moved so deeply by this event. I live in South Dakota so imagine my surprise when later that morning I received and email from a friend who was mourning your son. As it turns out she attends your church in NJ. I will continue to pray for you as the Holy Spirit has put you strongly on my heart. I feel deeply for Tyler's pain and Praise God that he is at Peace with Him. May God Bless you. "

Kathy Murray
(friend)
October 19th, 2010
"Years ago when we had a choir at Grace there was a song that we did that became an instant favorite of mine. It was entitled, "Jesus is the Song". The refrain said:
"Jesus is the song of life,
Jesus is the song of joy,
Jesus is the song of love;
Jesus gives his song to me."
Jesus gave His song to Tyler, and Tyler passed it on to us. We'll be forever grateful for his talent and his willingness to share it so faithfully with all of us. It was amazing watching him grow from a little guy who played rather well, to a young man who was an accomplished musician. And just a sweet kid through it all.

Our hearts break for you, and we pray for you all.
Love, Kathy - for Steve and Jesse too"

Ruth Conti
(Church)
October 31st, 2010
"Still Thinking about your family...Praying for your family...and will continue to do so...Remember...NOTHING can separate us from God through Christ...NOTHING...Just Come to JESUS...HE is ALWAYS there for us...ALWAYS...IN ALL WAYS... With Love, Ruth"

Thomas Riser
February 1st, 2011
"Even though I never knew Tyler, I feel a special connection to him which has not diminished over the last several months. I keep a picture of him on my bedside table, as a way to never forget what happened to him, to remind me to be kinder to those around me, and to, in a way, celebrate his life. We decorated our Christmas tree in pink and purple this year to honor his memory.

Take care"

Kate Hazel
((none))
February 15th, 2012
"Nothing can compensate for your loss and I am so deeply sorry. I promise, as a mom, that I will always remember Tyler's story and will strive to ensure other families do not suffer as you are--whether it's standing up to bullies or teaching my children to fearlessly stand up for anyone who might need it. I will teach them Tyler matters."

Anjelica Greeneway
(none)
March 11th, 2012
"I'm so sorry. May he rest in peace. You didn't lose a person; you gained an angel. May God Bless you."

Lynnette Hershberger
March 16th, 2012
"Dear Clementi Family,
My heart has been aching for you since the time I first heard about your most talented and loved son, Tyler. At the time of the tragic news, my 20 year old son was studying abroad in China. The news so concerned me that I found the courage to begin the discussion of my son's sexual orientation in a phone conversation that resulted in a loving and open dialogue. I hope and pray that in many ways there can be good that comes of this awful tragedy you had to endure. What a senseless loss. My prayers and concerns go out to you."

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Guest Book (28 entries)
Dear Clementi Family,
My heart has been aching for you since the time I first heard about your most talented and loved son, Tyler. At the time of the tragic news, my 20 year old son was studying abroad in China. The news so concerned me that I found the courage to begin the discussion of my son's sexual orientation in a phone conversation that resulted in a loving and open dialogue. I hope and pray that in many ways there can be good that comes of this awful tragedy you had to endure. What a senseless loss. My prayers and concerns go out to you.
Lynnette Hershberger
March 16th, 2012
I'm so sorry. May he rest in peace. You didn't lose a person; you gained an angel. May God Bless you.
Anjelica Greeneway (none)
March 11th, 2012
Nothing can compensate for your loss and I am so deeply sorry. I promise, as a mom, that I will always remember Tyler's story and will strive to ensure other families do not suffer as you are--whether it's standing up to bullies or teaching my children to fearlessly stand up for anyone who might need it. I will teach them Tyler matters.
Kate Hazel ((none))
February 15th, 2012
Even though I never knew Tyler, I feel a special connection to him which has not diminished over the last several months. I keep a picture of him on my bedside table, as a way to never forget what happened to him, to remind me to be kinder to those around me, and to, in a way, celebrate his life. We decorated our Christmas tree in pink and purple this year to honor his memory.

Take care
Thomas Riser
February 1st, 2011
Still Thinking about your family...Praying for your family...and will continue to do so...Remember...NOTHING can separate us from God through Christ...NOTHING...Just Come to JESUS...HE is ALWAYS there for us...ALWAYS...IN ALL WAYS... With Love, Ruth
Ruth Conti (Church)
October 31st, 2010
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evan uddin
February 14th, 2013
"The front left corner of the sanctuary seems so empty now. That's Tyler's corner; he should be there and I'm so sad that he's not. But in my mind's eye he is, and always will be, violin in hand, blessing us all with his incredible talent."
Kathy Murray
October 19th, 2010
"Dear Jane, Joe, Jimmy & Brian, There are no words to express how very sorry we are. We feel blessed to have been a part of Tyler's life since Travell school and now at Grace. In our minds and hearts, he will always be first chair. We hear his musi"
Laura Christenson
October 12th, 2010
"Tyler, you had a beautiful laugh and a beautiful smile that matched your beautiful spirit inside. I hope it continues to resonate within me, accompanying the music we've made together."
Hannah Yang
October 11th, 2010
"I will miss you so much Tyler, you brought me a lot of joy."
Christi Cadorette
October 7th, 2010
"God Will Make A Way by Don Moen God will make a way, Where there seems to be no way He works in ways we cannot see He will make a way for me He will be my guide Hold me closely to His side With love and strength for each new day He will make a way"
Tim & Hilary Meyer
October 3rd, 2010
"Thank you Tyler for developing and using your God-given talent for Him! Your music moved our souls...you will be missed! Barbara & Ron Farrington"
Barbara & Ron Farrington
October 2nd, 2010
"Thank you for sharing your God given talent with us for so many years."
Joe and Maureen Giangola
October 1st, 2010
"Tyler - I loved to hear you play your violin! I will miss you!"
Jennifer Romine
October 1st, 2010
"We only knew Tyler as God chose for us to know him. We were blessed by your gift of music. You will forever be missed."
Nancy & Brian, Kyle & Jared Haag
October 1st, 2010

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