Emma Rose Penman-Elefant
(2008 - 2011)

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Emma Rose Penman-Elefant

Birth:
California, United States of America
January 8, 2008

Passing:
California, United States of America
October 7, 2011

Interests:
Princesses, Gymnastics, Ballet, Friends, Learning from Mason, Teaching Gavin new tricks
Memorial
Ken and Steph would love for you to join them on January 8th; gathering to remember Emma on the morning that she would have turned four ....
We will be walking across The Golden Gate Bridge at 10AM, something she loved to do, in her memory.

Please join us. And forward to anyone I may have missed.

Click here for details: http://paperless.ly/tzS9jI

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This site is dedicated to Emma Rose Penman-Elefant.

Emma's smile and laugh is an inspiration for us all. She loved princesses, gymnastics, and her friends and family. She will be dearly missed.

Her passing was sudden and a surprise to us all. She was seen by doctors on Wednesday -- doctors performed tests but don't have more information yet regarding the exact cause of her death. Stephanie and Ken were with Emma when she passed away at Lucile Packard at Stanford on Friday night.

Many of the family and friends have offered to cook meals for the family. A meals service has been set up. If you are interested, please go to http://www.mealtrain.com/?id=my996su9hp4t to sign up to cook a meal.

Click on the Donation tab to learn more about the Emma Penman-Elefant Dance Scholarship Fund.


Arrangements were held on Friday 10/14/11:
• Main Memorial Service: Saint Simon Catholic Church
• Reception: Home of Powers Family. Thank you to the Powers Family for hosting!
• Kaddish (Jewish Mourning Ritual Prayer where Emma's name was read): Shir Hadash

Guest Book Wall (What is this?)
Steve Block
(Friend)
October 11th, 2011
"Stephanie and Ken,

Betsy and I are so sorry to hear about the devastating loss of Emma. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,
Steve, Betsy, Jake and Rachel Block (Friend's of Stu)"

Katie Griffo
(friend)
October 11th, 2011
"Stephanie,

I am at a loss for words. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

With deepest sympathy,
Katie Griffo"

Susan Block Moores
(Stephanie's teammate & ch)
October 11th, 2011
"We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. "

Paula (Randall) Rocha
October 11th, 2011
"Stephanie,
Christina told me about your sudden loss. My heart breaks for you and your family. No parent is prepared for such a tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God bring you comfort and peace. My deepest sympathies...with love, Paula
"

Wendy and Chuck Pilkey
(Niagara Gymnastics friend)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie, We never had the opportunity to meet your beautiful daughter, Emma Rose, but certainly saw what a shining star she became for her family through pictures and joys you shared with all of us. May you and Ken, Ken's family and your Mom and Dad find peace in memories of your precious child and the love you all share. We are so sorry for your loss. God Bless...The Pilkey Family "

Michelle Hug
(friend)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and family,
I am so so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of and praying for all of you.

With love,
Michelle Hug (Dailey Method)"

Molly Haun
(Neighbor in SF)
October 11th, 2011
"Stephanie and Family,

There are no words. A piece of news that literally stops everything around you. I looked through the photos of Emma, she was gorgeous. I am praying for you all.

-Molly"

Laura Pilkey-Stojanovski
(childhood friend and team)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beautiful child.As a mom, I can't begin to imagine how you are suffering at this moment. I just hope that the love of your friends and family will help you to find peace. I sit here across the country crying for you and praying for your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Love, Laura"

Beth (Murrell) Barbier
(high school friend)
October 11th, 2011
"My heart aches for you. No one deserves to feel the heartbreak you are feeling.
May time and the comfort of friends and family help heal your pain.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love the Barbiers,
Beth (Murrell) Barbier"

Karima Hassan
(Friend)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Family,
I am shocked and deeply sorry to hear about your loss. I work at a Quaker school now and when people are in need of support of any kind, we hold them in the light. I can't think of a better way of saying it. I am holding your family in the light. From the bottom of my heart I hope you feel the love and support that you need right now."

Tricia Heissenbuttel
(Mason's 4th Grade Teacher)
October 11th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,
We are so, so sorry for your devastating loss. I remember how beautiful and full of joy Emma was at Mason's Science Fair last year. She still brings a smile to my face. Know that the fourth grade will keep your family and Emma in our hearts and prayers.
Tricia Heissenbuttel"

Gabriela Rosales
(Gymboree teacher)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Family
All of us here at Gymboree are truly heartbroken. Emma was a beautiful and sweet girl. We will always remember her and keep you and your family in our hearts.
Stephanie, Dawn, Diane, Nicole and Gabriela"

lizzie spehar
(friend)
October 11th, 2011
"Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?

I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.

All is well.

"

Virginia and Mike Friedman
(friends)
October 11th, 2011
"We look at the photos of Emma and see a beautiful little girl who has always been an angel--blessing your hearts and homes for a much too short time, but who now will eternally look over her family. We are sending our thoughts and prayers every moment.

Love,
Mike and Virginia Friedman"

Seena and Jack Elfant
(Great Uncle and Aunt)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stphine and Ken
Our love and sympathy go out to you at the tragic loss of bubbly beautifur Emma
My she rest in peace
Love Uncle Jack and Aunt Seena"

Jennifer Rade
(Friend of Muscarellas & A)
October 11th, 2011
"Ken & Stephanie - Our deepest sympathies for the loss of your sweet little girl. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love, Tim and Jennifer Rade"

Suzanne Landucci
(friend of Angie & Natalie)
October 11th, 2011
"Emma: the beautiful child who came to bless the world with her smile and love; a profound and meaningful visit she gave to all. May she always be remembered thus bringing us tenderness and strength.
Suzanne"

Jim Burton
(Stephanie's gymnastics co)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie & Ken: All my love and prayers for you and your beautiful Emma. Trust that she is now in the grace of God and is at peace. Keep her memories in your heart forever. God must have needed another special angel. All my love, Jim Burton"

Sarah Lammersen
(Dailey Method)
October 11th, 2011
"Stephanie and Ken,
My heart just aches for your family. You are held in our thoughs and prayers.
Sarah"

kathryn kelly
(Friend of Ken)
October 11th, 2011
"Ken, Stephanie and Mason,
My family and I are so deeply sorry for your tragic loss. Mason always talked about Emma and how much he loved her.

May God bless you and help you through this devastating time in your life.

Kathryn Kelly and Family"

Grant and Christine Wedner
(friends)
October 11th, 2011
"You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Should you need anything - please know that we are here. "

Stephanie Luongo
(cousin)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Ken, Stephanie, Mason and Gavin,

We are so saddened by the loss of your sweet Emma. Though we are on the East Coast, please know we are throwing our arms around you.

Love,
Stephanie and Ben "

Wendy Greco
(Gymnastics friend)
October 11th, 2011
"Stephanie, Ken and Family:
Cherish the time and the memories and keep Emma's spirit shining inside of you! What a beautiful angel baby! Love and prayers to all of you.
Wendy Fusilli Greco "

Samantha Teasdale-Doviken
(cousin)
October 11th, 2011
"I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tragic time!!
"

Jason and Tiffany Loia
(friends)
October 11th, 2011
"Words cannot express your sadness and our sorrow for your family. Please know that we are thinking about you constantly at this time. Our hearts are with you."

SHERYL ELEFANT
(COUSIN)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Ken,Stephanie,Mason, and Gavin
I was so saddend and shocked when I heard of Emma's passing.
I prey that God will watch over you all

Cousin Sheryl"

Malika Junaid
(Friend of Stephanie)
October 11th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken,

I don't have words to express what I feel right now, but the only thing I can say is that she is in a much better place. She was a beautiful gift from god that made your lives beautiful and happy. Remember her smile, her laughter and the joy she brought to you. I will always remember her.
May god give you all strength.

Prayers as always
Malika and Junaid Family"

Kathy Bailey
(Sandi's sister)
October 11th, 2011
"Our hearts are grieving with you during this very sad journey. Our prayers are with you. Know that Emma was a joy and a blessing to us and will be very much missed."

Minh Ava CHang
(Friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken,
We are so sad to hear this devastating news of Emma's passing. Our heart goes out to you and your family. She was such a beautiful little girl full of life and such vivacious personality. She will be missed very much. You are in our thoughts.

Love,
Minh and Albert Chang"

Kristen Barton
(friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Stephanie and Ken,

I am so incredibly sad to hear about the loss of your lovely Emma. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Kristen Barton and Family"

Margaret King
(friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Ken and Stephanie:
I am heartbroken to hear the sad news about your sweet Emma. Words can never express the pain I feel for you.
"

Caralyn (Close) Noel
(College Friend)
October 12th, 2011
"No words can describe how you deal with the unthinkable. My family and I have you all in our prayers for some kind of comfort. Lean on family and friends. Thinking of you all..... Steph---- I give you all my strength...and have you in my heart.
Fondly,
Caralyn (Close) Noel
And Family
"

Blaine, Susan, Owen and Todd Witt
(Family)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie, Ken and Family-

We were devastated to hear of your loss. Our hearts are filled with sadness and grief for all of you during this difficult time. May you find peace in your family and friends. We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Love
The Witt Family"

Ken Gould
(friend)
October 12th, 2011
"I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear this terrible news. Ken, I haven't had the chance to see you in recent years, but my sincere condolences to you and your family on your loss. Marie and I are thinking of your family during this difficult time.

Ken and Marie Gould"

Dan Rosen
(Friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken,

I just wanted to write and express my sadness for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Sincerest Regrets,
Dan R"

Brent Ahrens
(friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,

Our hearts go out to you and your family. We are saddened by your loss. Hugs to all.

Ahrens Family."

Kerry Harris
(Cookie Exchange Friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Stephanie and Ken,

Words cannot express the sadness of hearing the news of your precious daughter Emma. I am praying for you and your family, that God will surround you in Love and Comfort you during this most difficult time. "

David Dalvey
(Business)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Ken:
I am in shock, as you surely are as well. My deepest sympathies and most powerful prayers for you and your family. I have a 3 1/2 year old daughter as well and she also loves princesses and gymnastics, so it is with tears that I write this note to you. The only consolation to the grief of missing her with all your heart, is that Emma is in an awesome place now and forever."

Heidi Simon Forte
((college friend))
October 12th, 2011
"Stephanie and family,
I know we haven't been in touch in a long time but I wanted to let you know my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. My deepest condolences. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. "

Bruce & Stephanie Pratt
(friends)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken,
We are completely at a loss for words to express the pure disbelief and sadness we feel for you.. Your darling, sweet Emma will surely be missed, but never forgotten. Please know that our hearts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Much love,
Bruce and Stephanie Pratt "

Larry Goldsmith
(former coach)
October 12th, 2011
"Stephanie,
My heart goes out to you. I remember you as a child with your beautiful smile and happy eyes. The picture of your daughter reminds me of you. You and your family are in Carol and my prayers. "

Kari & Kirk Helgeson
(Friends)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken,

We are so saddened by your loss and can't even imagine what you are going through right now. We are constantly thinking of you guys and sending lots of love your way!

Kari & Kirk Helgeson"

John and Nathalie Wicker
(Friends)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken,

Words cannot express the emotion we feel as your friends and as the parents of Jack. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. "

Jaideep Singh
(Friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,

It is a shock for us and we can't even imagine your feelings. We grieve with you even though we are far, and have Emma in our hearts and thoughts. We wish you courage and peace through this very difficult time.

Leena and Jaideep "

William Quigley
(colleague)
October 12th, 2011
"I am very sorry for your profound loss, Ken. May you and your family find some joy in your fond memories of Emma Rose.

"

Kara Gilbert
(Friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear sweet Stephanie and family... my heart breaks for you and I wish strength and healing for you. Sending you immense love and the warmest thoughts and prayers."

Gary Baker
(Friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Ken and Stephanie,
Yulemny and I are at a loss of words to express the sorrow we have on the passing of Emma. May the memory of the joy she brought be of comfort during this difficult time. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers,
Gary and Yulemny Baker
"

Gail and Ron Monti
(Friends)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie, Ken & Family,
We are so sorry to hear the news of your beautiful daughter, Emma Rose. We pray that God watches over you and your family. With all our love and prayers."

Heidi Roizen
(friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie, words cannot express my sorrow for the loss of your daughter. You and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers -- Heidi Roizen"

Lesa and George Mellis
(neighbors)
October 12th, 2011
"Dear Ken, Stephanie and family,

We are so sorry for your loss of sweet Emma Rose. Having two boys and a girl, we can only imagine what you are going through. We are here to support you and wish you strength to carry on in the difficult road ahead without your sweet little girl. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers,
Lesa and George Mellis and family
"

Daphne Dufresne
(Kauffman Fellowship & HBS)
October 12th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,
My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine the sadness and sense of loss. I offer you courage, hope, and strength. This will be a tremendous loss for your family but thankfully the Lord has blessed you with other children. Your family is in my prayers. Lots of love, Daphne Dufresne and Joe Amprey"

Jodi and Sejo Jahic
(friend)
October 12th, 2011
"Our hearts are broken at the incomprehensible loss of your beautiful Emma.
We wish for healing and peace for you and your family in this most difficult time.
Jodi and Sejo Jahic"

DeeDee and Gary Koker
(Friends from SJC)
October 12th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. We pray the love of God enfolds you during your difficult times and he helps you heal with the passage of time. May the blessings of love be upon you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. DeeDee and Gary Koker"

Carol LeCoff
(grandmother of Rachel & L)
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Ken, Stephanie and family,
My heart, love and prayers go out to you in this heartbreaking time. I will always remember the day we all went to see Andy Z and the girls had so much fun running around. Then after Emma and Rachel had so much fun sharing fries. I am glad to have that joyful memory of your precious Emma. I wish all the good memories you have of Emma bring you comfort; she is missed. Love, Carol LeCoff"

Sias Family
(Friends)
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Ken, Stephanie, Gavin, Family and Friends,
I have been in front of my computer with a shattered heart wanting to write something for the past 3 days. As I sit here on the evening of my birthday, I know I will always think of you and remember your sweet Emma from the week that I turned 47. I too share all of the wonderful supportive sentiments offered by your loving family, friends and community. Everyday I send Peyton off to school and ask him to pray for you. Tonight he confirmed that he has been doing that. We will keep praying that you move through this chapter in your life with strength and courage. We are so sorry for your loss.
Love,
Elise, Vic, Peyton & Carson"

Jay Bhatti
(Friend)
October 13th, 2011
"Ken - I was heartbroken to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Jay and Harleen"

Matt Valenti
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Ken, Stephanie and Family,

I am incredibly sorry to hear the news of Emma's passing. My deepest sympathies to your entire family for the loss. The Penn Wrestling Team and myself send our thoughts and prayers to you in this difficult time."

Jay Effrece
(friend)
October 13th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie, I am so saddened by your loss. You have my thoughts and tears with you through this trying time. "

Roos Family
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Ken, Stephanie and Family,
We are so terribly sorry and devastated for your sudden loss, and words cannot express the sympathy we feel. You are in our thoughts and prayers every day and we hope you find the strength to get through this most difficult time.
Marc and Katie Roos"

Matt and Allyson Herrington
October 13th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie, We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. May God, family and friends help you through this tough time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers."

Cathy Jaspe
(Mom of Kate and Jon)
October 13th, 2011
"You are in my thoughts and prayers. Angels watch over us and you have a special one."

Judy and Bob London/Davis
(Neighbors)
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken and Your Family,

We are so shocked and deeply sad about the tragic loss of Emma. Our hearts ache for you.

Judy London and Bob Davis
"

Marissa Janopaul
(Friend)
October 13th, 2011
"Stephanie and Ken. We are at a loss - for words, for understanding. Our hearts are with you and your family for the loss of your beautiful little girl...
Marissa and Matt Janopaul"

Lisa and Sean Green
(Friends)
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie, Ken and Penman Family,
Your memorial site is a beautiful tribute to your daughter. We were deaply saddened to hear about the loss of your sweet daughter, Emma. You will be in our continued thoughts and prayers.
The Green Family
Williamsville NY"

Penn Athletics
October 13th, 2011
"Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
-Penn Athletics"

Dan and Kathleen kelly
(Friends)
October 13th, 2011
"Our heart felt prayers go out to you and your family. May the the Grace of GOD be with you.

The Kelly Family"

Linda and Joe Becht
(friends)
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie,Ken and family,
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We were shocked and saddened to hear about Emma.

Linda and Joe Becht"

Brian Bilder
(Penn Wrestler)
October 13th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie, My heartfelt sympathies on the passing of your wonderful and charming daughter. I remember those blessed days when my daughters were that age and our family was so full of life. I cannot imagine the depths of your loss. I wish you Shalom and a bright future in her memory."

Kent Lietzau
(Friend)
October 13th, 2011
"We are so sorry to hear the news, and don't have words to say that can do justice. Dawn and I will pray for you and your family.

Kent & Dawn Lietzau"

Stacy (Breitenstein) Dziomba
(Cousin)
October 13th, 2011
"Ken, Stephanie and Family,
We cannot express how sorry we are for your tragic loss. Our thoughts are with all of you. The website is a beautiful tribute to your beautiful daughter.
Love, Stacy,Pete and Kylee Dziomba
Kingston, NY
"

Bernie Stark
(Friend of Mason)
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie, Ken and your families.
I worked with Ken many years ago at Claris. We are very good friends with your son Mason and his mom. Although we didn't know Emma personally we knew how much Mason loved her. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Bernie, Rick and the Stark Family"

Steve Stender
(Friend)
October 13th, 2011
"Ken, Stephanie and family,

We are saddened by the sudden loss of Emma. We are thinking of you and would like to offer our deepest sympathies.

Steve and Jeannette Stender
Connie Stender"

Matthew Morse
(Family Friend - The Elefa)
October 13th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie - My big heart just sank immediately today upon hearing the news Mom sent of Emma's passing. Nothing in this world matters as much as the joy a beautiful child brings to life and light of a family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family whole heartedly...especially for big brother Mason. Sending you lots of love and comfort...Emma will always be thought of as a shining star.

Peace,

Matthew"

Nick Drakos
(Penn Wrestling 1999)
October 13th, 2011
"Dear Ken and Family,

Please accept our deepest sympathies, a light has gone out on this world. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Nick and Margo Drakos"

LuAnne Graves
(Bikes at Children's Cente)
October 13th, 2011
"Emma danced before us so briefly, yet charmed us so easily. My God hold your family close during this difficult time."

Erin Paruszewski
(friend)
October 14th, 2011
"Stephanie-
I'm so sorry for your loss. We will miss Emma so much at the studio. She was such a sweet girl.
My thoughts are with you and your family during this very sad and difficult time.
Love,
Erin"

Karim Faris
(friend)
October 14th, 2011
"Ken- We are so sorry to hear the news... our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Karim & Alissa"

Sean Seagreaves
(Penn Wrestling)
October 14th, 2011
"So sorry for your loss, your family will be in our prayers."

Jerry and Teresa Boynton
(Friends)
October 14th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,

We are so sorry for your loss. Jerry and the crew enjoyed Emma's bright smile and sweet personality. She will be forever remembered as The Princess. You and your family are in our prayers.
"

michael brandys
(friend of Dean SR.)
October 14th, 2011
"Dean and Family, So sadded to hear of this.my thoughts and prayers are with you.I so feel your pain."

Chuck and Liz Ritter
(Family friends)
October 14th, 2011
"Stephanie, Ken and the Penman family,

We are thinking of you and so very sorry about the loss of beautiful little Emma. We hope you will someday find comfort and strength knowing that she will always be in your hearts.

The Ritter Family
Williamsville, New York"

Domenico Magaldi
(Friend of a friend)
October 15th, 2011
"I just lit a candle in a small church, here in Italy.
For the new little angel in heaven.
Dom"

jodi baker
(friend)
October 15th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie,
I am so incredibly sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jodi Baker (Whitelaw)"

Raina,Steven,Morgan and Patricia Snyder
(Cousins)
October 15th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie,Ken,Gavin,Mason and of course Natalie.
Please know that even though we did not see you as often as we would have liked to and never
had the pleasure of seeing Dear sweet Emma our
hearts and prayers are with you.
Your Cousins from Santa Cruz, Ca."

Daniela and Eric Weise
October 15th, 2011
"Our prayers and thoughts are with you. May you gain strength from the love of family and friends.

Daniela and Eric Weise (friends of Dan)"

Dana Calafati
(Friend of Christina Roth)
October 16th, 2011
"I was touched in many ways to hear about your daughter. I can't believe what life gives us sometimes! I am a mother of three children and want you to know that prayers are coming from PA.
Dana"

Rob Franks
(Friend)
October 16th, 2011
"Ken:

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are in my prayers."

Mary Kay and Terry Schiller (Peterson)
((Niece of Dennis and Dean)
October 17th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Family, We are so terribly sorry to hear about your loss. Our hearts are hurting and our prayers go out to all of you! May the lord keep you strong in the memories of your beautiful Emma.
God Bless "

Bob,Barbara Penman
(Cousins)
October 17th, 2011
"Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Your cousins in Florida."

michael bryant
(friend)
October 18th, 2011
"My thoughts and prayers are with you all. My heart is broken for all of you. All my love Michael Catherine and Nicole"

Mark Kugler
(friend)
October 18th, 2011
"Ken and Steff: I just found out yesterday. I am very sorry for your loss. She was a beatiful child. My thoughts will be with you."

Steve Goldblatt
(friend)
October 18th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,

My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Steve Goldblatt "

Bobbi Parry
(High School Friend)
October 19th, 2011
"Ken and Family

My mom called me with the news last night of your beautiful Emma's sudden passing. I am so sorry for you and your family and cannot stop thinking about you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Bobbi Lee (Duncan)Parry and Family"

Hina Khader
(ex-coworker)
October 19th, 2011
"Ken~I heard about your loss and my heart goes out to you and your wife. My deepest sympathies to you & your family."

Suzanne Piro
(Friend)
October 20th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie and Ken,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your entire wonderful family. Emma was a special gift. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Holding you all in the light,
Love,
Suzanne and Peter
"

Audrey Nelson Crowley
(friend)
October 20th, 2011
"I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Matt and I will keep you in our thoughts and we send sympathies to you and your family."

Mitzi Konevich
(friend from the heart)
October 20th, 2011
"I do not know Emma or her family, however my heart is with this family and with this beautiful child whom you miss so dearly. Prayers and heartfelt sympathy from me to you. Mitzi Malovos Konevich
"

Gordon Russell
(friend)
October 20th, 2011
"Ken:
I can't imagine what you're going through. I'm so sorry for your loss -- she was clearly a joyful kid. Take care of yourself, and your family. I'll be thinking of you.
-Gordon"

Marc Glomb
(Friend)
October 21st, 2011
"Ken, Stephanie

A life lived far too short - heads shake and wonder why - ours is not to know why - but to manage and hug those closest to us who we have here and love.....and always keep her in our heads and hearts

love

Marc"

Adrienne Strena
(friend)
October 21st, 2011
"Dear Ken,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine...
My heart sank with each word, below the picture of a sweet little girl, with her bright beautiful smile. Hold each other close and remember how very precious each day is. You and your family are in our prayers.

Love to all,
Adrienne"

Tina Fox (Griffo)
(Joe Griffo's Sister)
October 22nd, 2011
"Stephanie,

You have been on my mind ever since my brother told me of your heart wrenching news.

What a beautiful name you chose for such a beautiful little girl. May the special memories of Emma Rose, which you will hold in your heart forever, help ease your pain.

With deepest sympathy to you and your family,

The Fox Family"

Christine Choi
(someone who cares)
October 22nd, 2011
"We do not know Emma or the family, but heard of the tragic news and completely devastated for your family. So sorry for your lost. As I have 2 little ones myself. How does one cope? No words can explain how you feel. Our prayers are with your family."

Paul Tritel
(friend)
October 23rd, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie,
We wish you comfort in dealing with tragic loss. As difficult as it may be, try and remember each day all of the joy that she brought to your lives. I know that she brought joy to all who knew her. She will continue to live on in each of you.

I wish for you both the gift of Shalom, the gift of peace.

Love,

Paul and Lisa"

Alex Minkin
(cousin)
October 24th, 2011
"Ken:

'May providence comfort you among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem'

This is the traditional thing to say to one who has lost a loved one.

I mourn with you in this tragedy, and express my deepest condolences.

Sincerely,

Alex "

Diane Kounalakis
(Friend)
October 25th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie: my heart goes out to you and your entire family. Mere words do not seem enough. May your faith and love keep you strong and may her memory be eternal. Emma Rose will live on forever in your hearts and memories. "

Joy Apple
(Gymnastics Teacher)
October 26th, 2011
"I am so sorry and sad to hear of Emma's passing. Your family is in my prayers. Blessings of peace and love to all of you! Love, Teacher Joy"

Marci Stern
(Former Neighbor)
October 26th, 2011
"Dear Stephanie:

We had a special Board meeting last night and at the end of the meeting Molly told us she read about your tragic loss on Facebook.

Roy and I are so very sorry to hear about the sudden passing of Emma.

We know words are never enough at a time like this but please know that caring thoughts are with you and your family.

Please take care of yourself. Also our condolences to your husband and family.

May time give you peace.

Fondly,
Roy and Marci Stern "

Barabara Colucci Santoro
(Friend from high school)
October 27th, 2011
"Stephanie,
Not a day has gone by that I have not thought about you, your family and your beautiful Emma Rose. I am so sorry for your loss.
Barbara and Joe Santoro

"

Stephanie Penman-Elefant
(Mother)
October 28th, 2011
"My dearest daughter, I missed you today more than words can ever say. The heaviness in my heart is you that I will always carry. My soul aches for you, to touch you, to hold you once again.

May you be at peace my little princess....and don't for get to "Let Your Sparkle Out"!!

Much, much, much LOVE and nose kisses!!!"

Betty Latta
(friend)
October 28th, 2011
"Natalie, So sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful, sweet granddaughter. My condolences to you, Ken, Stu and your family from Steve, Jeff and me. Betty Latta"

Katie Hogan Juran
(friend)
October 29th, 2011
"Ken,

It has been 30+ years since our elementary school days together, but I've been lucky enough to bump into you and Stu from time to time in recent years. I just heard the sad news about your daughter. I am so sorry for your loss and am sending my thoughts and prayers to your entire family.

Katie Hogan Juran"

Gerri Matusewitch
(Cousin)
October 31st, 2011
"Dear Natalie

I only just heard about your granddaughter Emma yesterday.

I am so sorry.

My thoughts are with you and her parents.

Gerri"

Jenna Stuckey
(friend)
November 1st, 2011
"Thinking of Princess Emma Rose every day. Remembering her Disney princess heels that our daughter was so jelous of. So pleased that Emma lived out every dream that a 3 yr old could in the short period of time alotted. A lucky girl to have landed with the family that she did.

love Jenna"

Sondra Hess
(cousin)
November 3rd, 2011
"I just heard and I am so sorry. My thoughts are
with you and your family.

Sondra"

Mark Satinsky
November 3rd, 2011
"I am so sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing that can be said to ease the pain nor anything that hasn't already been said. But my prayers are with you."

Bill Callanan
(Friend)
November 7th, 2011
"Stephanie, I just can't express properly how deeply sorry I am for you and your husband for the loss of your daughter. I sincerely hope that God will somehow give you comfort and strength in your life. I have and will continue to pray for you and Emma. You and she will be in our hearts constantly.

Bill Callanan"

Mike Buckley
(Friend/Colleague)
November 11th, 2011
"My thoughts and prayers are with you guys. Best, Mike"

Jenna Stuckey
(Friend)
November 23rd, 2011
"Today I am thankful for my friendship with the Penman-Elefant's & the glimps of perfect sweetness in Princess Emma Rose that I got to experience."

Stephanie Penman-Elefant
(Mother)
December 12th, 2011
"Emma, you are ALWAYS in my heart and on my mind. How am I going to get through this life with such a big hole left in my heart.

I love you forever, and ever....nose kisses and huge hugs to my dear sweet Emma Rose. I miss you SOOOO much.


"

Stephanie Penman-Elefant
(Mother)
December 21st, 2011
"I think of your beautiful Smile everyday, the sparkle of your spirited blue eyes,
the sound of your laughter Filling my heart, yet as a mother I still feel So empty inside. My entire being aches to have you back in my arms. I love and miss
You so much my sweet princess! I love you forever and ever!!! xoxo"

anonymous
(children's center family)
December 25th, 2011
"Merry Christmas Sweet Angel. We are thinking of you and wishing your family comfort and peace."

Marilyn
(friend)
December 25th, 2011
"Merry Christmas Stephanie and Ken. I hope find some peace in all your beautiful memories of Emma, that you are making many more with Gavin and Mason and that you find comfort knowing that we love you and hold you so close today as always.
"

Marti McGuirk
(Friend)
December 25th, 2011
"Thinking of your bright sparkle this Christmas, sweet Emma. Merry Christmas, dear princess. You are missed each and every day by so many people who love you."

Tina (Griffo) Fox
((Joe Griffo's Sister))
December 25th, 2011
"I heard you Joe, Kate & Jeff all got together last week. It is so nice to know that true friends will always be there for each other & pull together in times of need.

You & your family, along with Jeff & his family have been in my thoughts & prayers this holiday season.

All the peace & strength you are seeking are right there in your heart. Be still & listen. Be brave & believe.

"

PAT LEACH
January 8th, 2012
"My balloon is ready.....filled with love and joy and sparkle....a tribute to your short but powerful life here on this earth....shine on Emma!!!!
"

Karen Salay
(Friend)
January 8th, 2012
"Happy Birthday Emma ... I know you were so proud of your mom and dad for knowing your favorite things and color. How can you go wrong with pink and starbucks. Thanks for the beautiful day."

Emma Beedon
(Preschool friend)
January 9th, 2012
"Happy Birthday to You.
Happy Birthday to You.
Happy Birthday Emma P,
Happy Birthday to You!
xoxo"

Avery Simonsen
(preschool/ballet buddy)
January 9th, 2012
"Emma, Stephanie & Family:
Prayers on your birthday little girl. We hope yesterday was a beautiful event! Such a sweet idea. Thinking of you.
Love, Avery Simonsen (preschool buddy) and Jen Simonsen"

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Guest Book (281 entries)
Emma, Stephanie & Family:
Prayers on your birthday little girl. We hope yesterday was a beautiful event! Such a sweet idea. Thinking of you.
Love, Avery Simonsen (preschool buddy) and Jen Simonsen
Avery Simonsen (preschool/ballet buddy)
January 9th, 2012
Happy Birthday to You.
Happy Birthday to You.
Happy Birthday Emma P,
Happy Birthday to You!
xoxo
Emma Beedon (Preschool friend)
January 9th, 2012
Happy Birthday Emma ... I know you were so proud of your mom and dad for knowing your favorite things and color. How can you go wrong with pink and starbucks. Thanks for the beautiful day.
Karen Salay (Friend)
January 8th, 2012
My balloon is ready.....filled with love and joy and sparkle....a tribute to your short but powerful life here on this earth....shine on Emma!!!!
PAT LEACH
January 8th, 2012
I heard you Joe, Kate & Jeff all got together last week. It is so nice to know that true friends will always be there for each other & pull together in times of need.

You & your family, along with Jeff & his family have been in my thoughts & prayers this holiday season.

All the peace & strength you are seeking are right there in your heart. Be still & listen. Be brave & believe.

Tina (Griffo) Fox ((Joe Griffo's Sister))
December 25th, 2011
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"My dearest angel, I miss you so much my heart hurts everyday. To never hear your laugh, feel your touch, or hold in my arms is too painful to even think of. We love you, You are so missed! Big extra long kiss on your cheek! All my love forever!"
Mamma Penman-Elefant
February 21st, 2012
"Emma my heart aches for you every second on every day. I miss so much, it is tearing me apart. You are in good hands and I know you are still "Sparkling" up in heaven. - All my love forever and ever. (special nosey kisses - I miss those the mos"
Momma Penman
January 26th, 2012
"Dear Sweet Emma I just wanted to tell you how pleased I was to send you a Pink Balloon from of all places The Golden Gate Bridge. I hope you can count all of them. There were a lot. Tons of love Uncle Louis"
Uncle Louis Elefant
January 9th, 2012
"Emma we sent up four special pink balloons to you today filled with lots of love and sparkle! We watched each of them until they were out of sight. Happy Birthday Emma - we love you and you will be in our hearts forever! Joyce,Keith & Kelly"
Joyce Krieger
January 8th, 2012
"off to send my birthday balloon...filled with all the joy and sparkle you deserve...one can never have enough sparkle...thanks for reminding us all how important that is...love you Emma....sparkle on from on high!!!!!!"
PAT LEACH
January 8th, 2012
"Thinking of you on today, Emma's birthday. Wish we could walk with you. We send you and Emma our love. Dana and Mia Guterman"
Dana & Mia Guterman
January 8th, 2012
"Sorry about your adorable Emma. 'When she shall die, Take her and cut her out in little stars, And she shall make the face of heaven so fine That all the world will be in love with night, And pay no worship to the garish sun.'"
Rusty Wilson
November 8th, 2011
"Ken and Stephanie: My thoughts are prayers are with you in this difficult time. I am so honored I got to meet Emma last year and will always remember her smile and spirit. I am so sorry for your loss. Shelley Spencer"
Shelley Spencer
October 28th, 2011
"Ken, we were very sorry to learn of your tragic loss. You have our heartfelt sympathies. Our thoughts are with you."
Mark & Adele Feldman
October 26th, 2011
"Dear Ken and Stephanie, Thinking of you and sending my love and prayers. Shirley Luongo"
Shirley Luongo
October 26th, 2011

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